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The people who write here. Everyone publishes under a scene name, standard practice in this community, and we say plainly what each writer does and does not claim.

Mara Vance

Kink educator

Writes the consent, negotiation and safety side of the guides.

Experience: Around ten years in the scene; runs beginner workshops and negotiation clinics.

Theo Brandt

Writer on kink psychology

Covers why people want what they want, and what it does to them.

Experience: Twelve years in D/s relationships; writes on power exchange and headspace.

Juno Park

Community and identity writer

Covers non-monogamy, queer kink, identity and access.

Experience: Nine years organising inclusive events; writes on ENM, queer kink and access.