BDSM.tech the plain-English kink reference BDSM Roles Explained
Took the kink test and want to understand your result? Here's what each role actually means.
Dominant (Dom / Domme)
Dominant
The Dominant provides structure, gives direction, and is accountable for safety. Dominance is defined by consent and care, not control for its own sake.
Related: Dominance & Submission.
Submissive (Sub)
Submissive
Submission is an active, chosen role: the submissive decides what is on the table and can withdraw consent at any time with a safe word.
Related: Dominance & Submission.
Switch
Either
Switches move between leading and following. Many people discover they are switches only after trying both sides.
Related: Dominance & Submission.
Brat
Submissive
Bratting is a style of submission built on cheeky resistance. It is often paired with a "brat tamer" Dominant who enjoys the challenge.
Related: Dominance & Submission.
Rigger
Dominant
Rigging is a skill-based dominant role centred on rope. It pairs naturally with a rope bunny and demands real study of safety and technique.
Related: Shibari.
Rope Bunny
Submissive
Rope bunnies enjoy the sensation, aesthetics and surrender of being tied. Communication about circulation and nerves is a shared responsibility.
Related: Bondage.
FAQ
What are the main BDSM roles?
The core roles are Dominant (leads), submissive (yields), and switch (both). Common styles include brat (defiant sub), rigger (ties rope) and rope bunny (is tied).
How do I know which BDSM role I am?
Notice whether you are drawn to leading or following, and try both with a trusted partner. A kink test is a low-pressure starting point, not a fixed label.