Reference for adults, 18+. Plain English, no jargon, no judgement. Page last checked 30 August 2026 Editorial standards
BDSM.tech the plain-English kink reference

Editorial standards & our approach

bdsm.tech is a plain-English, safety-first education resource about BDSM and kink for adults. This page explains how we write, what we will and won't do, and the disclaimers that apply to everything here.

Who this is for

Everything on bdsm.tech is written for consenting adults exploring or researching kink. We assume good faith and curiosity, and we write for beginners and experienced players alike: without judgment about what anyone is into, provided it is safe, sane and consensual between adults.

How we write

  • Plain English. We explain terms and practices clearly, without jargon or gatekeeping.
  • Educational, not explicit. We describe what a practice is, why people enjoy it, and how it's done safely: we do not publish pornographic content.
  • Consent and safety first. Every practice is framed around negotiation, limits, safewords and aftercare. Higher-risk activities (edge play, breath-adjacent play, suspension, electro and similar) are flagged as advanced and safety-led.
  • Accuracy over sensationalism. We describe how things actually work in the real kink community, not the exaggerated version from film or clichés.

Sourcing and accuracy

Our articles draw on established, widely-accepted community knowledge and safety practice. Where guidance varies, we say so rather than presenting one opinion as fact. We review content for accuracy and update it as understanding and best practice evolve. If you spot an error, tell us via the contact page: we take corrections seriously.

What we will not do

  • Publish sexually explicit material or anything that isn't educational.
  • Depict or endorse anything involving minors, non-consent, or real harm. All content is strictly about consenting adults.
  • Present risky practices as casual how-tos. Where real skill and safety training are required, we say so plainly.

Not medical, psychological or legal advice

bdsm.tech provides general education, not professional advice. Nothing here is a substitute for a doctor, therapist, or lawyer. Physical and emotional risks are real in some activities; if you have health concerns or questions with legal implications, consult a qualified professional. You are responsible for your own safety and choices.

Privacy

Our interactive tools, the Kink Test and Kink Checklist, run entirely in your browser. Your answers are stored only on your own device and are never uploaded. See our privacy policy for details.

FAQ

Is bdsm.tech medical or legal advice?

No. bdsm.tech is educational information for adults, not medical, psychological or legal advice. For health concerns or decisions with legal implications, consult a qualified professional.

How do you decide what to publish?

We cover established, real-world BDSM and kink topics in plain English, always foregrounding consent and safety. We describe practices educationally rather than explicitly, and we prioritise accuracy over sensationalism.

How can I suggest a correction?

Use the contact page. We welcome corrections and review flagged inaccuracies, updating articles where warranted.